This past week I recognized a trending theme in some of my coaching sessions; the desire to feel safe.  The common denominators: Each client that communicated this desire was a woman, and all of them were referring to relationships with men.

I believe that one of the most important (if not THE most important) relationship ingredients for a woman is safety.  When I speak of safety I speak of physical safety, of course, and a woman also wants to feel emotionally safe, and sexually safe.

As a relationship coach I hear this often, and as a woman I can relate to and understand this need. Read more