Three conversations in as many days…three different
relationships: business, parent/child, and romantic.

One issue: Frustration.

The fix: Boundaries.

Now, about that list…yes, it is the holiday season and I realize that my title and picture bring to mind the popular image of Santa checking his list to see who is naughty and who is nice…(and here is where I apologize in advance for co-opting a Christmas sentiment to get your attention).

Because today, I want you to make a list.

I suggest that you pick a relationship that you are currently involved in (be it business or personal) OR the relationship you would like to attract/create, and then make a list of what you WILL NO LONGER ACCEPT.

There. I said it.

I realize that it is more fun to make a list of what we want, AND I know you want to have easy, sweet, happy, delicious relationships.

Which is precisely the reason I want you to start today by making a list of what you will not accept.

And why is this so important?  Because, we get what we tolerate. 

And the tolerations in our lives cause FRUSTRATION.  Frustration causes resistance, and resistance stops ease and flow.

My challenge for you is to decide upon 3 things that you will no longer tolerate.

I’m not even going to pretend that this will be an easy task.
Some of you have been tolerating things in your relationships for so long that it seems impossible to make a new boundary around them.  I know you can.

Yes, making boundaries may require a difficult conversation.  Be brave.  Success often depends on them.

Ridding yourself of those tolerations will open up space (emotionally and energetically) and that new space can be filled with what you desire, instead of what you are tolerating.

Won’t it be nice to go into the New Year with more ease, flow, sweetness, and deliciousness in your life?

Love & Magic,

Cindie